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Saturday, April 20, 2002


Sleep needs to come quickly. Im not in the mood to be awake with my thoughts right now.
Im slipping into a foul disposition. I can just feel it.
I wont blame it on hormones. I've been accused (by an insensitive male) of blaming everything on those. Im a physiological person....what can I say?

Lullaby - Starsailor

Get back on your feet again
Always seem down
Some of your weaker friends
Don't want you around

Stop twisting my words tonight
If you get high on life
Don't leave me behind

Im dying to feel a high. There's more to life than studying!!
Off to try to sleep again.

Ade Kinch from URL @ 2:30 AM

Friday, April 19, 2002

Before I forget....

Reasons for men to make the first move:

1. women like you should be confident enough to put yourself out there knowing that youre all that
2. if we have to come to you what else will you be expecting us to do? pay for dinner? Hold the door open?
3. it shows great interest when a guy makes the first move. it makes a woman feel really attractive. I mean if she's all that then she's worth the effort.
4. if you let a perfect opportunity to meet the possible woman of your dreams pass you by because youre scared or shy (give me break) then you dont deserve her!

OK Im going to bed now. I've really used enough brain cells on this topic...especially when it doesnt pertain to me in the slightest

Ade Kinch from URL @ 2:23 AM

Grow Some Balls

I've been out of commission for a while now but Ive been stirred from my dormancy with an important (and I quote) topic.
It's all about making the first move.
We've all been in the position where it's obvious that girl likes boy and boy likes girl.
I mean it's a given that some guys are so daft that you have to send out flares for them to notice you....but for the most part they know.

Men can be so hypocritical. Talking sh*t bout they dont mind girls making the first move and 21st centry BS. But let a girl come push that "i want you" stuff in their face and theyre running away with their tails between their legs. Either that or the train of thought, "she's made it clear that she wants me...she must do this with alot of guys...she's loose"

And all this talk about rejection. PUHLEASE. Women get rejected too! All the time!

It's not yet time for role reversal. Men couldnt handle that.

Act like you have some testosterone and if you like a girl dont stare at her for weeks without making some kind of move. Go talk to her! Invite her out. Ask for the number. Offer yours.
And if you've gotten through with all that. It's time to attempt the first kiss. We're waiting.

Just by the way......
Im the kind of female that goes after what she wants. I don't play games...especially not the waiting game. Hence the knowledge of rejection. But that's OK you see. I just dust myself off and go again when need be.
Dont tell me i have more balls than you!
And if I do...GROW SOME!

Ade Kinch from URL @ 2:06 AM

Thursday, April 18, 2002


He?s so contagious
He turns my pages
He?s got me anxious
He?s what I?ve waited for

Im not studying.
it's quite annoying actually
get to it!
Slunker signing out

Ade Kinch from URL @ 8:28 PM

Wednesday, April 17, 2002

Note to self

It is NEVER a good idea to go to the beach the day before an exam. Under ANY circumstances

Ade Kinch from URL @ 1:53 AM

Tuesday, April 16, 2002

Brown Girl
I went to the beach today. Just on a spur-of-the-moment thing. It was wonderful!
I feel so very relaxed now. And brown! It was worth it.
I also did lots of studying tonight.
Im not much in the blogging mood right now though.
More later
Beach Bum signing out

Ade Kinch from URL @ 10:48 PM

Monday, April 15, 2002

Lookie Me!!

Today Im OK. No drama, no mood swings. Im not elated or depressed about anything. So it's been a cool study full (yeah I cant believe it either) day. Im just here waiting for my laundry to finish and then it's back to the books.
Someone showed me this pic. Its of trinidad carnival. See if you can spot me.
Good thing Im behaving myself in this one.
Trinidad carnival is the greatest!

Ade Kinch from URL @ 9:43 PM

Sunday, April 14, 2002

More Than Words
Im in a sentimental mood.
It's amazing how a song can take you back.
Happily for me it was a good time in my life. Now I feel like the time to return to JHU couldn't come soon enough. I miss Baltimore...again. All the trips to the movies and to Inner Harbour. Even the cheesey parties. But you only really appreciate those days when theyre gone.
I wonder how it will be for me to return. I mean things might not be as great as I hope but it could never be a bad experience. Too much happened there to change me. It's worth it to go say goodbye.
Hopefully then I will never long to be in the company of someone from my past again. Hardly likely.
It's necessary to just let go......
Here are a few picsfrom back in the day.

Ade Kinch from URL @ 10:57 PM

I'm Feeling Hella Good

I'm feeling like a fun, fearless female. I know I'm fickle as hell but for now Im riding on this wave of I-dont-give-a-ras-cause-life-too-so&so-short-for-shite feelings.
So the comments are coming back as well as the link from hot body Mr. Popularity Thompson. And if I never get any comments then so be it. Life goes on!
And if I go back home and people point and stare and whisper, "she's insane" thats ok as well. Dem rice dont bubble in my pot! (Barbados is definitely too small!)
Lets hope this feeling lasts...because Ive been informed that HTML will not be altered for me again. The link stays!

I dont know brought on this mood swing. Maybe it has something to do with the new issue of Cosmo I have here. Call me me whatever but I think every woman should read that magazine. You can never know enough ways to wear nice make up or please your man. Education never stops!

Ade Kinch...wanton sex goddess...signing out
(only those that have seen Bridgette Jones Diary will understand. for the remainder ...right now i dont really give a flying f*ck what you think!)

Ade Kinch from URL @ 3:28 AM

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