Hope For The Best...
I was fully prepared for the chop. But the hairdresser wasnt as scissor happy as i thought she would have been. So I have what they call a layered bob. Im happy with it.
If Ever You Lose Your Humility
So I've had a couple of moments where I began to think I was the shit. That's never a good place to be in and I have just the remedy for it. If ever you need bringing back down to earth
1. Go try on some random piece of clothing: NOTHING says fat cow like fitting room lights. No matter how happy you were with your body before you stepped behind those curtain the glare of the fluorescent lights will highlight every bulge and every flaw. Halle Berry you are not.
2. Go clubbing in Leeds (only works if you're a fully clothed black female) So I went out last night... thought I looked semi cute. Obviously I was wrong.:) What is really up with this Black man, White woman attraction thing.
There were quite a few very hot black guys out last night and they almost all came with the prerequisite white date. The blonder the hair and the faker/ more exposed the boobs the better. And I was trying to figure it all out.
So I came up with a couple guesses.... trying to see things from their point of view(again in list form)
1. It must be nice to run your hands through a girl's hair without having to have it catch up on kinks/curls or worrying about finding tracks or ruining their 'do'.
2. Path of least resistance is the more attractive. Sounds prejudiced... but I see it over and over again and it has been confirmed by quite a few black guys I know so Im not apologising. Some of those girls look like they would eat Black Man for breakfast, lunch and dinner and then with some whipped cream for dessert. I wouldn't be up for the run around either I guess. Id go for the more apparently interested female.
3. 'exotic' tends to be more attractive
4. The idea of dipping in 'Massa' sugar bowl has to be appealing. (ok this blog turning out to be potentially offensive)
Im not hating on interracial dating. but if your preference in women is the opposite of what you see in the mirror.. that seems a bit wrong to me.
Bajans Everywhere
So I about to go in the bar/ club when I hear my name call. Guy from HC. Nice to see a familiar face. Nicer to get a lil wuk up/ wine on.
jammy git
blessed
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Farewell to My Hair - AGAIN
Im going to the hairdresser this weekend and Im going to tell them 'Off with it!' cause this stuff on my head is just an annoyance. Im not going buzz cut like pinky though. Just short like how I had it back in 2003. Not quite reaching my neck.
Im not thrilled about it but Im not as attached to this frizz as I thought I would be. The non dyed part of my hair is just too nice and healthy for me to care about what happens to the fox tail.
DLG doesnt mind what I do. He's lived in Trini long enough to be immune to the whole long hair/ 'pretty' hair shit that Bajan men cant get enough of. Oh yeah... DLG is a Trni. Yes another one for me. who would have thought. lawd.
And I think my hair was pretty cute short.
we will see
Wish I was in Trini now boy. I havent had a good party in so long. All my friends telling me bout all the liming that going on there since they get through to World Cup.
I wonder if I will ever get this restlessness completely out of my system.
i doubt
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In Defence Of Trina
Well... since my life is full and I have endless things to occupy my mind I shouldn't really have time for blogs like these (dripping sarcasm) but I will make time to defend my new role model.
Dont Trip (my new fave song) isn't about skanky behaviour. Its simply supporting the exploitation of the opposite sex. Haven't women been used and taken advantage of by men from since the beginning of time? So why is it that a woman preaching a little pay back is called a skank or ho etc.
And Dont Trip specifically decries wanton sexual behaviour.
Ladies lets say you want a man
But don't know how to do it
Dirty dance with em
Put a lil back into it....
Make em spend it all on ya
Yep and make that nigga ball for ya
Then have him beggin for that kitty kat
Wining and dining for that ass
Give him none of that
She says dont screw him. Basically she's letting women know that they can get stuff out of guys without parting with our virtues:). Simple suggestive dancing and slightly revealing clothing (99% of Bajan women have been guilty of both at some point in time), if done right, is all thats necessary to make a guy part with some of his cash.
So please... let's get out of this habit of putting down outspoken women.
I REALLY need a life
Lewwe call that George
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Some Carnival Enthusiast I Am
So apparently Leeds is Under A Rock. Carnival songs have been out and I didnt even know. SO Ive been trying to catch up on http://www.toronto-lime.com . Im not impressed. At all. They probably have to grow on me. But I think Bajans way ahead this time around.
Blue, Yellow!(8)
How does one turn down an offer for a carnival costume?
Just say 'No thanks' While kicking yourself soundly.
Lawd... if I was a different kinda woman.
cha
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